"Your world keeps spinning
and you can't jump off.
Oh, I will catch you if you fall,
I can't tell you enough"
- Listen to the man (George Ezra)
I am obseeeeeessed with that song. I don't know if it's just because it's George or it's his amazing voice or adorable Ian Mckellen.
Probably all three.
Anyway, I've been off my blog for about a week and in that week I've come to a realisation that I need to change my mindset about showing love/care/stuff along those lines. I should've did 174248274 years ago.
You see, not everyone gives love (& etc) the way you do. Just because you show your love by presents or telling the person how much you do every single minute of the day, doesn't mean that the person you is going to return that love is going to return it in the same way.
I admittingly am one of those people who goes all,
"oh man, does so and so not care about me anymore/ does so and so not love me anymore/ does so and so hate me??"
Calm down, mate. It's likely that they still do so don't you worry your head with a thousand questions that'll make you feel worse when in actual fact your friendship/relationship is going just fine and you're just over worrying.
As an example, say there's a couple who [A] shows 110% of his/hers love by calling you every possible nickname there is and tells you all their dreams about you and how much they love you 100 times a day. Then, there is partner, [B], who gives just as much love as [A] does. However, he/she does it more discreetly because that's just the way they are/prefer it.
But long story (not really) short, love/care/etc comes in different forms.
Anyway (2), I also just realised that I have a habit of saying "ne-mind" instead of "nevermind".
((WHY IS THERE NO PHOTO SHOWING UP ON MY MAIN BLOG PAGE FOR THIS POST!!)
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